Posted in Christian, God, Legacy, Salvation

Roman Road to Salvation


How Do I Get Saved?  Have you ever been asked that question?  How do you answer?  Here’s a quick response.

The Bible says in: 

Romans 3:23 NKJV – for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.

Romans 3:10 NKJV – As it is written: “There is none righteous, no, not one;

Romans 5:12 NKJV – Therefore, just as through one man sin entered the world, and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men, because all sinned–

Romans 6:23 NKJV – For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Romans 5:8 NKJV – But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

Romans 10:9-10 NKJV – that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.

Romans 10:13 NKJV – For “whoever calls on the name of the LORD shall be saved.”

So now what’s next?

Tell someone!

Be BAPTIZED! That’s your first major step AFTER salvation.  This signifies that you have been saved!  It’s a picture that you are dead to sin and raised alive in Christ.

Start reading the Bible daily.  Start in the New Testament to learn more about your Savior!

Find a Bible believing Church to join and serve the Lord with them.

Blessings ~ Wendy

Posted in balance, boundaries, Christian, Legacy, Motivation, Values

How Do You “Balance” It All?

Have you ever felt like the funny picture above?  Me, too! I hear all the time that we must manage our time because there is no such thing as “balance”. Do you agree?  If you’ve ever tried to balance your life, you certainly know the struggle.

Just when you think you have things balanced, the scale tilts and throws everything off kilter.  But when you manage your life, you seem to roll with the punches more freely. Please understand, I use that phrase “roll with the punches” very loosely.  Some of us are wound up tight by nature, so we find it difficult to roll with anything that puts a kink in our plans.

I have found that life is less about control, regardless what we call it – managing or balancing, and more about living.  But to live life on purpose without too much frazzle, you must have some values and boundaries.

By values, I mean you must to know what’s most important to you.  To you.  Once you determine that, you’re on your way. For me, it’s God (Jesus Christ), family (husband and children) and work (really everything else).  That’s the order of importance or value.

The other thing is boundaries.  By setting your own boundaries ahead of time, you are not caught off guard when situations arise.  For example, as a believer (#1 value is God), I want to avoid the appearance of evil. So, if one of my husband’s friends drop by and my husband is not home, we will visit out side in the open rather than coming in the house.  Or if you are single and dating someone, but have determined you will remain pure until you are married, you would avoid being alone in a setting that could lead to compromising that determination.  By setting your own boundaries ahead of time, you guard your values (and reputation) when situations and circumstances surprise you.

 By having values, we live on purpose. By setting boundaries, we protect our values. Life may still get out of “balance”, but we don’t have to become frazzled over it. For example, I have learned to let my house get messy when something of more importance is taking all of my time.  (Maybe a sick loved one.) When that crisis is over, I can get back on my house. Another example is saying “no” to something to which you want to say “yes” because this good thing that needs a “no” interferes with another good thing that is of greater value to you.

So, if you were to ask me, “How do you balance it all?”  I would have to say, I don’t.  I live life as it comes and try very hard to keep first things first.  Yes, from time to time, life may press in on me and I do frazzle a bit, but it’s been a long time since I’ve felt like our furry friend at the top of this post. (Now, if you saw my hair when I wake up, I may look like him! But that’s a topic for another day.)

I hope this simple reminder that we are not here to “balance” life, somehow helps.  We are here to live the call of God. So, say “YES” to what’s most important. After all, life isn’t about us…it’s about HIM!

Blessings, ~Wendy

Posted in Christian, Legacy, Motivation

Making the Mundane Matter


I get all “fired up” when I think about living out my purpose!  Don’t you?  But sooner or later, I get distracted by life – the mundane things in life, like washing dishes or doing laundry or even my job. Before I know it, what I’m doing and what I believe my purpose is seems to be on different planes.  And I hate that!

Well, wisdom really does come with age.  Whether we like it or not.  But I have learned some wisdom from two particular sources that the mundane things really do matter.  Since I’ve already mentioned age, I’ll start there.  I have seen in the life of my family and the lives of others that taking care of the mundane things give a sense of peace and security.  For example, we’ve all heard the saying, “If momma ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy.”  Well, that’s true because “momma” sets the tone for the family.  So cook, clean and go to work with a happy attitude because the family develops peace or chaos from us.  If we do every task with a willing heart and by our best standard, we make the mundane matter.

The other source that has taught me the mundane things matter, is the Bible. Scripture teaches us in Colossians 3:23  “Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men”. ‘Whatever’ includes the mundane things.

I have learned that there are very few things I can control.  Can I get an AMEN?  Really, maybe only one thing – my attitude.  (And I do a poor job of that sometimes!) I can gripe and complain about all the things I have to do for one reason or another that prevents me from doing my purposeful living OR I can choose to make all the things I have to do for one reason or another part of my purposeful living.  You see, if I shirk my “mundane” responsibilities so I can be about more”important” things, then I am nagged mentally that I should have already done thus and so.  But if I take care of the “mundane” responsibilities as unto the Lord, I have a sense of satisfaction of having done what I should so when I am doing the more “important” (in my mind) things, I have peace.  And so do those around me.

So make the mundane things in your life matter…because they do!

Blessings ~ Wendy


Posted in Christian, Legacy, Motivation

How to Live on Purpose?


Have you ever thought about how to live out your purpose?  I am assuming that you know your purpose.  Looking at the image above, what is NOT relevant anymore?  Your past. Don’t misunderstand me.  Your past has helped form who you are today, but it does not define who you are today or your future.  You get to choose your future and that is done by living on purpose today.

Take for example that you want to be  a medical doctor.  You do NOT go open an office and hang out a shingle with your name on it followed by MD.  No, you finish high school. Then you go to college (and do well, I might add).  Then, you apply for medical school until you are accepted and you complete medical school.  You do a residency  and sit for your licensing board.  Provided you pass all of that, you will become a medical doctor.  It takes years to accomplish. That is living on purpose.  Everything you choose to do in that example put you one step closer to reaching your calling as a medical doctor so you could live out your purpose as a physician.

Now, what if your purpose is more like mine.  To glorify Jesus Christ in all that I do and help others come to salvation in Him.  Regardless of your occupation, you do your very best because that’s what Christ calls all Christians to do.  You live a holy and blameless life as best you can with the help of the Holy Spirit.  You confess and get right with God when you sin. And above all, you tell people about your Savior.

Am I perfect at this? NO!!  But I pray I am getting better.  I try to love others the way Christ loves them, but I’m imperfect and I often fall short.  I do, however, try to be more like my Lord everyday.  Therefore, I try to look at every task as an act of worship.  And I try to see every person as the beautiful creation God made. And I am reminded often that my battle in this world is not with the people around me, even when we disagree, but it is in the spiritual realm.  But that is a topic for another day.

Live life on purpose.  We only have one life to live and don’t want to miss out on anything Christ has save me to do!

Blessings ~ Wendy

Posted in Christian, Legacy, Motivation

Family Tree

Life tree

When we think of our family tree, we think of who we came from and those connected to us. Our roots, if you will. Who will we become from this family tree of ours?

Have you ever met someone who blamed their lack of “doing something with their life” on their family tree?  Or maybe you’ve met someone who gave credit for what they’ve done or who they’ve become on their family tree?

I once heard a story of two men who were identical twins. They shared virtually everything growing up.  They were raised the same, had the same opportunities and the same adversities in their formative years.  Finally, they grew up and started making their own choices. One became an alcoholic and one became a medical doctor.  They were interviewed late in life by someone studying twins.  Each one was asked, “What made you become X?”  The alcoholic said, “My father was an alcoholic so I didn’t really have a choice but to become an alcoholic.”  The doctor said, “My father was an alcoholic so I chose to become a doctor in hopes of finding a cure for alcoholism so others would not have to live like I did growing up.”

You see, the choice is yours.  How do you want to be remembered? If your life right now is not how you want to be remembered, change it.  You can! We often hear cliche’s like, “The apple doesn’t fall from the tree.”  And that is often true, but it doesn’t have to be.  Maybe you have a great tree and want to stay close to your roots.  Maybe you wish you were from a different tree and want nothing more than to be anything except like your tree.  Either way, you can.  The choice is yours.

We are all accountable for ourselves.  Each of us will one day stand before a holy God and we will be without excuse.  Our actions and our inactions will be called into account. In other words, we will give an account for everything we did and/or should have done.  Our family is not responsible, we are.  Society is not responsible, we are.

So choose.  “…choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve…But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.” Joshua 24:15.

Family trees.  We all have one.  Do you want to continue that legacy, build upon it or start your own.  Choose.  You can!  And as for the legacy, well, we all leave one.